A little help getting started
Draft updated September 9, 2026
How do I join?
Choose Take a seat, create an email account, and complete your profile. You can also choose ChatGPT sign-in. These are separate accounts; return using the same method. Use Forgot your password on the login page for recovery, or Verify email in settings. Email delivery must be available to send these links.
Why is my profile pending?
Profiles and photos enter a moderation queue. A configured moderator must approve your profile before it appears to other members or can send invitations. Pending status does not mean identity verification.
How do invitations work?
Offer a clear cash incentive for a first date. Your recipient sees the amount before deciding. Open a real member profile, propose a public restaurant and date, and review the incentive before sending. The recipient can accept or decline; the sender can cancel a pending offer. The sender can unlock an accepted offer using platform credits to begin messaging. Cash incentives are never deducted from messaging credits or transferred through this application.
Are the preview profiles real?
No. Profiles under Preview profiles are fictional examples with initials instead of real people’s photos. They cannot receive invitations, favorites, or messages. Community shows actual eligible member profiles.
How do I buy credits?
Live purchases are not open. If Stripe test mode is configured, the checkout uses test cards only. No credit is added until the server verifies the payment event.
Can I verify my identity or use video calls?
Identity verification, selfie verification, video calls, installable-app notifications, and email delivery are not connected in this version. No verification badge is shown without a real verification process.
How do I control or delete my data?
Open Settings to edit your profile, manage visibility and contacts, download your data, or delete your account.
How can I contact support?
Use the report feature for member safety concerns. A monitored support address and response policy must be configured before public launch.