Community Guidelines
Draft updated September 9, 2026
Show up as yourself
Be honest about your age, photos, intentions, and availability. No impersonation, misleading verification claims, fabricated profiles, or deceptive automated messages.
Respect the person across the table
No harassment, threats, hate speech, stalking, coercion, or repeated unwanted contact. A declined invitation or lack of reply is a reason to give someone space. Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Keep this a place for dating and connection
No escorting, prostitution, sexual solicitation, trafficking, paid sexual services, or using gifts and invitations to demand intimacy. No scams, financial schemes, phishing, spam, or unauthorized advertising.
Share appropriate photos
Use photos you have permission to share. No nudity, sexually explicit content, photos of minors, identity documents, contact details, or content that violates someone’s privacy. Uploaded content is held for review.
Make considerate plans
Choose a public venue, agree on details and dining costs, and communicate promptly if plans change. Do not make offers you do not intend to honor or pressure anyone to attend.
Report concerns
Use Report on a member’s profile to describe a concern. You can also block the member. Reports enter a moderation queue; no response time or always-on monitoring is promised in this preview. In an emergency, contact local emergency services.
Enforcement and appeals
Moderators may reject content or suspend profiles. Before public launch, the operator must publish a support contact and a process for challenging moderation decisions.